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Finding a Surprise After Refinancing a Mortgage

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Carol Schlossman received assistance in paying $10,000 in mortgage arrears.

The New York Times Neediest Cases Fund recently featured this Children’s Aid story by Jennifer Mascia about Carol Schlossman and how she received help with paying her mortgage that was in arrears. Below is an excerpt from the original article.

To Carol Schlossman, Wachovia is a four-letter word.

“I had very good credit — until Wachovia,” she said recently as she rifled through a folder of papers, souvenirs of her dizzying odyssey through the subprime mortgage meltdown.

In 1998, her cousin, Arthur Schlossman, now 66, bought a two-family house in Sheepshead Bay, Brooklyn, for $240,000 in cash, earnings he had banked before the onset of severe schizophrenia. Ms. Schlossman, 62, moved in and assumed the role of his full-time caretaker — a former office associate at the New York City Department of Education, she was waiting tables until a heel spur forced her to stop working — and in return he signed over the deed to his house.

Three years later, she borrowed against the equity in the home to remodel the kitchen and catch up on credit card debt. Over the next five years she refinanced and borrowed three times, and each time the arrangement worked out well for her, lowering her monthly payments.

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The New York Times Neediest Cases Fund
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(800) 381-0075

Photo courtesy of Robert Stolarik for The New York Times

The Children’s Aid Society Champions Access to Special Education

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New York City is home to thousands of children with special needs. These young people require educational programs which address their needs, programs with individually monitored plans, adapted materials and equipment, and a physical environment to help them to grow into self-sufficient, functioning young adults.  For these children, the individual attention required to help them flourish is not always available to them in a classroom setting.

"Special needs includes children with physical and learning disabilities, as well as emotional, behavioral and developmental disorders. These children require an Individualized Education Program, (IEP) to provide an appropriate and effective educational experience.

The Children’s Aid Society brochure, Special Education: Access and Eligibility, supplies families with eligibility requirements for special education services per the U.S. Department of Education (DOE), including the spectrum of programs, funding and an explanation of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA).  IDEA was passed in Congress to protect the rights of students with disabilities, requiring schools to evaluate and educate children who qualify for special services. Upon meeting the requirements under IDEA, these students are placed in an appropriate, specialized program – their IEP – at no cost to the parents.

By law, the parents are required to be included with the planning of their child’s IEP. The program works towards providing the least restrictive environment, so the child can experience as much inclusion into General Education as possible.

Our dynamic programs, such as the Rhinelander’s Children Center’s Saturday program for Deaf and Hard of Hearing Children and the Respite Services at Wagon Road Camp for developmentally challenged kids, are specifically designed to serve our special needs children. All children deserve an appropriate education, and Children’s Aid supports that with services and advocacy!

For more information, contact The Children’s Aid Society at (212) 358-8930.

Teen Access to Healthcare is a Priority for Children’s Aid

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As a society, we place great value on access to health care. While many advocacy groups promote health care for babies and young children, teenagers are sometimes forgotten. In fact, teenagers are less likely to see a doctor than any other demographic of the U.S. population. Teens have a distinct set of physical and emotional health-related issues, and The Children’s Aid Society offers assistance to them. In New York, teens have a right to receive several confidential health and family planning services. The parameters of a teen’s healthcare rights are outlined in a Children’s Aid’s advocacy brochure, “Teen Access to Health Care and Family Planning.” The pamphlet discusses:

  • Informed consent and confidentiality
  • Which medical services and treatments a person under the age of 18 can consent to in the state of New York without parental permission
  • The educational rights of pregnant teens
  • Medicaid Family Planning Benefit Program (FPBP)

In addition, Children’s Aid has developed preventative health programs for teens and adolescents, and offers access  to two teen health clinics where teens can find medical services and important answers to questions in a safe and non-judgmental atmosphere. These programs and facilities give teens the tools to make good choices and to remain healthy. To become healthy adults, teenagers need education and access to healthcare; Children’s Aid is making that happen.

Children’s Aid Society Celebrates African-American & Dominican Heritage Month

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Coconuts! Coconuts were everywhere, strewn across the floor, sitting under handmade palm trees, by beach chairs that lounged in front of the wall-length mural of the beach that, to anyone who has been in the city for the last few months, is just as good as the real thing. At least I didn’t have to clean out sand from my shoes.

This year’s African-American & Dominican Heritage Celebration at the Salomé Ureña de Henríquez Community School in Washington Heights offered a tropical escape from the crisp air and slushy streets. Students, parents and staff from eight Children’s Aid Society community schools in Washington Heights, East Harlem and the Bronx celebrated their heritage on Friday, March 5th.

The school doors opened to a lobby full of paintings, ceramic statuettes, live music by The Ebony Hillbillies and a variety of foods, including fish in coconut sauce the and the Dominican Republic’s traditional dessert made of beans called Habichuelas con Dulce. One could really feel the tropical culture; Children’s Aid staff were dressed in authentic African attire, and sarongs, large brightly colored hats and flip flops.

The evening’s performances opened with the Dominican Republic’s National Anthem and was followed by over 100 performers showcasing African-American and Dominican inspired moves. The students, ages 5-18, performed a variety of dances from hip-hop to merengue.

A touching moment came when students from I.S. 166, wearing “I Love J.O.” t-shirts, dedicated their performance to their former Community School Director Jobis Ozoria, who passed away last December.

"The African-American and Dominican Heritage celebration is one of my favorite events of the year,” said Richard Negron, Director of The Children’s Aid Society’s Community Schools. “It is wonderful to see the community come together and students, their families, Children’s Aid staff and our Department of Education partners working to put the event together. Seeing the auditorium at the SU Campus filled to capacity is energizing."

Photos by Ben Russell

Children’s Aid Report on Arts Education Benefits: MOTIVATION, IMAGINATION, EMANCIPATION.

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Across the country, educators, government leaders and psychologists laud the value of an arts education. The arts are a great vessel for tapping into a child’s creative energy and boosting their self-confidence. Studies show that visual and performing arts play an important role in the child’s cognitive ability to read, write and do mathematics.

A recent paper published in the Psychology of Music concluded that when elementary school children were enrolled in a music curriculum, they tend to perform better in terms of language and literacy in comparison to children not routinely trained in music. Additionally, students incorporating keyboard instruction as part of their music program demonstrated a notable improvement in their vocabulary and verbal sequencing, as they progressed to advanced (and more complex) levels in keyboard theory and practice.

Research indicates that students exposed to arts programs tend to do better on standardized tests than their non-arts peers. For those kids living in troubled homes, who may be subject to experiencing emotions of anger or grief, the arts provide a cathartic release. Art therapy is an excellent outlet for troubled teens who otherwise may not have an outlet to vent their innermost emotions and fears.

Art presents an opportunity for the overstressed child to express his or her thoughts in a non-verbal way. At–risk children tend to flourish in arts studies, making them less likely to cut classes or quit school altogether. Thanks to community-based programs and other advocates and benefactors, the arts have found their way back to the educational stage!

Marjorie Caparosa, Arts & Leadership Coordinator, East Harlem Center, Children’s Aid, weighs in on the topic:

Providing programs that encourage children to express themselves through the arts is perhaps the most valuable gift we can offer our youth. Here at East Harlem Center our curriculum is designed to inspire creativity while allowing children to articulate their feelings in a safe and supportive environment. With our multidisciplinary approach to programming, participants flourish as they learn about different cultures, holidays, artists, literature, etc. through the arts. Visual arts, dance, music and drama promote teamwork and leadership skills as well providing an outlet for our youth to express themselves. East Harlem Center’s young artists celebrate their creativity and build self-esteem through their participation in arts programs at our site.

Children’s Aid Report on Talking With Your Teens About Sex Month

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March is National Talk with Your Teen about Sex Month. Though any month is the right time to have “the talk,” the purpose of this commemoration is to remind and encourage parents to open the lines of communication with their children regarding this subject.

The Guttmacher Institute reports that nearly half of teens between the ages of 15-19 have had sex at least once and according to the Center for Disease Control, teen pregnancies are on the rise once again. The United States still has the highest rate of teen pregnancies in the industrialized world; NOW is the time to start talking to your teens about sex.

Important tips for parents to remember:

  • START EARLY. Talk with your children early, using age-appropriate language and examples. Waiting until adolescence may be too late.
  • Be honest about your own feelings of difficulty discussing such a sensitive and intimate topic.
  • Be realistic about the disadvantages of engaging in sexual activity too early, including sexually transmitted diseases, unwanted pregnancies and the possibility of becoming a single parent. Equally as important are the advantages of waiting to have sex, such as being able to finish school and meeting career goals.
  • Reassure your children that you will be available whenever they need to talk. Expect them to come to you with follow-up questions.

Dr. Michael A. Carrera, Director, Teen Pregnancy Prevention Program, Children’s Aid Society says, "Parents are the primary sexuality educators of their own children, they have no choice about it; their only choice is how well or poorly they do it."

Dr. Carrera  recommends the following books:

It's Perfectly Normal by Robbie Harris What's Happening to my Body: Book for Boys and What's Happening to my Body: Book for Girls by Lynda Madaras, What's Happening to Me? and Where Did I Come From? by Peter Mayle.

The Children’s Aid Society 9th Annual Children’s Art Show

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Dozens of youngsters, from tiny preschoolers to shy teens, walked cautiously into the National Arts Club in Gramercy Park on the evening of February 24th. Keeping close to their parents, some still wearing their iPod earplugs, they entered the main gallery and found black walls and spotlights highlighting artwork of all techniques, from watercolors to dominoes.

Once the children located their pieces, they stayed close, eager to show them off to anyone who walked by. The walls looked dull, if only for a moment, compared to the young faces glowing with excitement, accomplishment and pride throughout the room.

The 9th Annual Children’s Art Show showcased over 150 pieces of art by children ages 3-18 and was open to the public from February 23rd – 28th. The show featured artwork  of students from Children’s Aid Society from this fall and winter programs. For the first time, the reception featured a fashion show from the Eco-Fashion and Green Design club at the Mirabal Sisters community school campus in Washington Heights.

“Wait until the art show, wait until the art show” said Mr. Richard R. Buery, Jr., President and CEO of The Children’s Aid Society, repeating words he heard regularly since joining the agency. “I was blown away!”

Photos by Lily Kesselman

Volunteers Make a Difference

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Pictured (from left to right): Aaron Ackerman, Amber Weiss, Alexandra Gold, and Toy Drive Committee co-chair Annabelle Torgman

During the holiday season, more than 125 people came together for an evening of fun and camaraderie, raising both money and toys benefiting New York City children and families in need of a helping hand. The 13th Annual Children’s Aid Society Toy Drive Party is the continuation of a strong tradition that began more than a decade ago by caring volunteers and young professionals committed towards our mission of helping those youth become healthy and productive adults. This year, guests, friends, and supporters raised more than $6,700 and donated over 100 toys and gifts towards making the holidays a little brighter for our kids.

Hosted at the fabulous Joshua Tree, guests attended the “Party with a Purpose” and enjoyed a wide selection of appetizer favorites and drinks like the Christmas Kiss and Snow on the Beach while dancing to classic 80’s tunes. They also purchased raffle tickets and participated in a party staple, the Triple Chance Raffle. This year’s raffle saw the largest and most eclectic assortment of prizes in recent years, with a list of more than 25 items up for grabs including, two roundtrip JetBlue tickets from New York to any US city; two tickets to the Lion King with Backstage Passes; a $600 Lela Rose Cashmere Sweater; and a Victoria’s Secret Mega Gift Basket.

While guests laughed, danced, and even belted out a song or two during the night, the purpose for the party was never far from their thoughts. The crowd listened intently as comments by Children’s Aid Chief Operating Officer, William Weisberg and Associates Council President Amy Kohn reinforced the need for ongoing support to keep quality programs and services like academic tutoring, mentoring, college prep, and medical and dental services from being eliminated due to inadequate funding.

Despite the serious undertone of the party, everyone remained optimistic and energized throughout the evening as they did their part to make a lasting impact on the lives of families and children in need. This year’s event was truly one to remember.

On behalf of our children and families, we would like to give thanks to all of the wonderful guests, donors, sponsors, and contributors that made this event such an overwhelming success.

Scott McLeod
Director, Office of Volunteer Services
The Children’s Aid Society

Richard R. Buery, Jr. to receive 24th Annual Ellis Island Medal of Honor!

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On February 2, The National Ethnic Coalition of Organizations (NECO) announced the first group of recipients of the 24th Annual Ellis Island Medals of Honor at The Children’s Aid Society headquarters in New York City.

This award honors those who exemplify a life dedicated to hard work, self-improvement, community service and who preserve and celebrate the history, traditions, and values of his or her ancestors.

Richard R. Buery, Jr. is one of 95 individuals who will receive this prestigious award at an Annual Gala Awards Dinner on Ellis Island on Saturday, May 8th, 2010. He is the son of Panamanian immigrants. Much to our CEO's delight, Michael J. Piazza, former catcher for the New York Mets, is among the recipients.

Cooking is an Art and the Meal is your Masterpiece

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image005Over the past 8 weeks parents in the Frederick Douglass early childhood Head Start program have been participating in the Go! Healthy curriculum sponsored by the Children’s Aid Society. Parents delight as they come to our center for 2-3 hours to learn how to cook healthy meals that they can prepare quickly for themselves and their families. From pesto pasta salad, vegetable dumplings with a ginger soy sauce and pizza to granola, frittatas and burritos, all parents agreed that the meals were easy to make and delicious. Amazingly, all recipes are made from scratch and only take 20-30 minutes to cook on a make-shift portable stove top.

After each meal is complete, our parents come together to share in the savory dishes and talk about cooking strategies. For example, we talk about ways to save money on ingredients. We also discuss how to engage children in the cooking process. This might entail reading labels or talking about mathematical quantities such as half and quarter cup. Mothers also agreed that this is a great way to get children to try new foods.

Everyone who participated felt that this was the best cooking class they’ve ever participated in. Thanks to Naxielly Dominguez for facilitating the course! As she always says, “Cooking is an art and the meal is your masterpiece”.

Margaret Caspe, The Children’s Aid Society in New York